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Different Occasions For Church Bulletins

Church bulletins have a lot of possibilities. They can be used as a nice way to inform your congregation or visitors about upcoming events or to hel...

 

Church bulletins have a lot of possibilities. They can be used as a nice way to inform your congregation or visitors about upcoming events or to help them follow the order of a meeting. There are a lot of companies that offer quality bulletins, and you should make sure you find the best ones available. It is important to make a good first impression, and sometimes these bulletins will be the first and last things they see.

If you get your church bulletins professionally made you can hand out some programs that include attractive designs and pictures on the front cover with a good message printed on top of it. These bulletins will also include room on the inside for all the relevant information for the occasion.

Church bulletins are a great tool that can be used to communicate with your congregation or as a teaching aid or as a simple means to distribute news about the church. Your congregation likes to be in the know, and this is a convenient way to make it happen. You can also use them for more somber occasions like funeral programs.

But whether you are using them as funeral programs or a program for a lighter gathering, you can include all the information they need to follow along. That can be the order of the service, any song lyrics that will be used, and also any items that will add to the feeling of the program.

Always look for bulletins that will reflect positively on your church and the message you want to share with everyone. Whether it is at special occasions like Christmas or Easter, or simply for the weekly services, you should make sure that your bulletins stay on message.

Take the time to really find or design the best bulletins for your church. Look at the different designs and templates they offer. Is it appropriate for the occasion? Does it fit with the message you are trying to share? Or is the picture unrelated to the situation? Maybe the printing looks a little amateurish? Find the bulletins that have some quality put into them.

It is especially important that funeral programs present the right message and are appropriate for the setting. This is a very serious time, and anyone in attendance will expect that any program or other materials there will be tasteful and meaningful.

Don’t rush the decision and make sure you find a good source for quality church brochures. If you find the ones that fit your needs and won’t break the budget, your visitors will be impressed and will appreciate the effort you went through.

There are so many uses of church bulletins! Belle Florentine is experienced in the area of church resources such as programs and bulletins and enjoys writing on the subject. For additional information on this and other topics, don’t hesitate to check out her other articles.

Chinese Funerals – The Role Of The Family, Community And Funeral Director

 

Chinese society takes burials as seriously, if not more so, than other cultures around the world. The prolonged mournings that arose from Confucius Chinese tradition are still the norm today, and those that do not follow that tradition as part of funeral proceedings, along with various other ones, are said to be risking the fortune and fate of the whole of the deceased’s family.

Once someone has died, their corpse will be cleaned, they will be changed into their best clothes, and their face and body will be covered with cloth. The deceased is then considered be to be appropriately prepared for the start of the funeral ceremony.

The Chinese funeral ceremony traditionally lasts over 49 days, with prayer services held every seven or ten days until the final burial. Family members and close friends will be expected to attend each and every one of those services.

At the final burial, mourners surround the coffin, with their exact position being dependent on their rank in the family. There is an expectation for certain family members to wear certain colors, with black not being the only color worn. It is also customary for blood relatives and daughters-in-law to wail and cry as a sign of respect for the deceased. Any late arrivals must crawl towards the coffin.

The coffin is then nailed shut, ‘holy’ paper pasted on it to protect the body from malignant spirits and the coffin carried to the hearse. With the vehicle driving very slowly for one mile, relatives follow with their heads touching the hearse, or with a white piece of cloth linking them to it.

The wake that follows the burial is expected by tradition to last at least a day, during which time prayers will be offered and monks will chant – the purpose of both being to ease the passage of the deceased’s soul into heaven. Respects are continued to be paid even after the wake, as the mourners wear a colored piece of cloth on their sleeve for the following 100 days.

The way that the Chinese deal with large scale death is also worth noting. As a land prone to considerable seismic activity, China is no stranger to bereavement affecting it on a national scale. In 2008 over 70,000 people died in the massive earthquake that shook Sichuan and the surrounding provinces and China saw an unprecedented level of mourning, lasting three days.

A nationwide silence was undertaken for three minutes, with everything from the stock exchange to airports adhering to it. Thousands of people walked the streets holding photos of the deceased in the air, whilst others burnt money as an offering. All forms of public entertainment were temporarily cancelled, and all television presenters wore black for at least a day.

With origins dating back to 1853, E.F. Box are one of the oldest funeral directors within the UK. They offer a range of funeral services across a variety of faiths, beliefs and ways of celebrating life.

Islamic Funerals – The Role Of The Family, Community And Funeral Director

 

Islam teaches that death is simply a doorway into the third stage of someone’s life and that when they are dying, their soul (ruh) rises in their body and collects in their throat. Their soul is then removed from the body by an angel named Malikul Mawt.

As the soul continues to live after death, it is important for Muslims to cleanse it prior to their death. For this reason, it is common to find friends and family members of a dying person around their death bed praying for Allah’s forgiveness and mercy in relation to any transgressions that the dying person may have committed.

Visits and prays prior to death are just the beginning of a process that is implemented for every Muslim in the final stages of their life. There are a range of preparations and customs that must be adhered to in accordance with Islamic law, that involve not only the family and friends of the dying person, but also the wider Muslim community.

Upon death, those present normally close the eyes of the deceased, bind the lower jaw to the head and cover the body with a clean sheet. The family then wash the body in accordance with Islamic rites and, unless a spouse is present, males must wash males and females must wash females. This usually takes place privately three or five times using water, soap and a cloth and, after washing, the body is shrouded with white material. Embalming is prohibited, as is an autopsy, unless required by law.

The next stage of the proceedings is the local community paying their respects to the deceased through public funeral prayers (Salat-ul-Janazah). These typically take place outside of a Mosque, with the coffin being placed on a stand in front of the lined up funeral goers, who may or may not have know the person in question. The purpose of these prayers, which are normally led by the most closely related male to the deceased, is to request pardons for all deceased Muslims.

The burial follows the completion of the funeral prayers, and is required by Islamic law to take place within three days of the actual time of death. Only men are permitted to attend the burial, and chosen members of the attending group must carry the body to the graveyard at shoulder level. A coffin may or may not be used, and if one is used then it must be made of wood rather than steel, as the aim is to allow the earth to reclaim the body in as short a time as possible.

Following the burial, for several days, people who knew the deceased will take gifts and food to the deceased’s family.

With origins dating back to 1853, E.F. Box are one of the oldest funeral directors within the UK. They offer a range of funeral services across a variety of faiths, beliefs and ways of celebrating life.

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The Simple Art of Being An Amish Funeral Director

 

It seems hard to grasp that in the heart of America there is a community that actively resists our 21st century way of life. They live in a world without burgers, rush hour traffic, mobile phones or even late night shopping.

Living as simply as possible, the Amish Community are famed for their shunning of modern day fashions and amenities. Best known from their movie appearances, the Amish are known for their old fashioned, dark clothing and long beards.

When an Amish community member dies, their room is cleared of all furniture. Loved ones then visit the deceased in their room across the three days leading up to the funeral. Loss is expressed quietly and in private, the community moving away from public displays of grief.

Although the Amish mourners still wear their traditional black to the funeral, the deceased person is dressed in white. For males, this usually comprises white trousers, shirt and vest, while for females it will be a white dress, cape and apron. For many married women their white cape and apron will be the same ones that they wore for their wedding.

All Amish funerals are given in German by the community minister. They usually take place in the deceased’s home or barn and the service focuses more on thanking God rather than celebrating the deceased’s life. Hymns are spoken rather than sang at an Amish funeral.

All people are equal in Amish culture and hence no graves are laden with symbols of wealth from life or even symbols of good will for the afterlife. All coffins are made from simple pine and laid within equal plots with a gravestone listing the deceased’s name, birthday and age.

A child’s death is mourned for a year by the parents. This is demonstrated by the wearing of a white shirt by the chilld’s father and plain black clothes by the mother. A small headstone or even an unmarked plot will represent the child’s grave.

Whilst this simple life may seem alien to us, the Amish are a community of great belief and faith. This can be seen in their conviction not to change from this, even for the death of a loved one.

With origins dating back to’53, E.F. Box are one of the oldest funeral directors within the UK. They offer a range of funeral services across a variety of faiths, beliefs and ways of celebrating life.